Thursday, June 19, 2014

May 21st: End of the trip meditation on choosing to bless, and introduction to the most important lesson assignment



bus ride to Halong Bay

feet became the theme of this bus ride



floating village in Halong Bay




evening meeting on the roof deck of our boat


our boat

I bought 10 kilos of mangosteens for our boat ride (they lasted for only 2 meals). I have many new members of my club "Mangosteens are the best fruit in the world club."

kayaking in Halong Bay


delicious sea food on the boat

"robe lunch" after swimming

sunset

sunrise on our last morning on Halong Bay
May 21st: End of the trip meditation on choosing to bless, and introduction to the most important lesson assignment
Look around you.
What a blessing – being here
What a blessing – having friends to share this with
What a blessing – the air I breath, the lungs to breath it, the mouth to talk, the mind to think – so many blessings in my life.

Think how far you have come.
Try to remember that first time you crossed a street in Saigon.
We were different people.
Travel can be hard.
Being in a group can be challenging.
Being together 24/7 can be difficult.
It pushes each of us in different ways.
It is such a blessing being here with you.
And I want to acknowledge you all.
Sometimes I forget how stretched we are, and for that I want to apologize.

The first morning after sleeping at our homestay, I woke up early and sat outside, and was thinking, “There are only seven days left. This is coming to an end.” And then the wind picked up. The wind does something special to me. It is as if it blows right through me, and cleanses me. It was as if the wind spoke to me that morning, and woke me up. The wind said to me, “Nothing ends, for something new starts.” The wind reminded me that nothing ends, for it just creates new beginnings.

How will you use these last few days?
What will you take with you?
What will you leave behind?
What grows out of wind and dust?

I want to share with you a story from the Torah.
Moses was wandering in the desert for 40 years.
He came upon a Moabite tribe
Balak, king of the Moabites, was afraid of this huge hoard that entered his lands. So he hired Balaam, a professional curser, to go to the Israelites’ camp to curse them.
Balaam prayed to get a really good curse, but when he saw the Israelites, he could not curse them. He said, “Ma tovu ohalekha Ya'akov, mishk'notekha Yisra'el.”
(How fair are your tents, o Jacob, your dwellings O Israel.)

Balaam chose to bless. He was commanded to curse, confronted by a potential enemy, but he chose to bless.

At every moment, we each have this same choice: to bless or to curse. Cursing separates. It divides. Blessing connects. These are our last days here. It is natural to think about the end of the trip, to think about hamburgers and frappochinos. Or, we can choose to be present. We can choose to take in each moment, and appreciate the blessings that are right in front of us. We can choose to connect to Vietnam and to each other.

What are the blessings in your life? It can be as simple as a morning breeze.

Think now on the blessing that you are
What are the gifts you bring to others?
What are the blessings you have to offer?

There is something about travel that is transformative:
New insights
New ways of looking at the world
New ways of looking at yourself

Some lessons we learn right away.
Sometimes we have to return before we become aware of what has changed
Sometimes it is just a small seed planted, and we only become aware of it years later

The lessons we learn are our blessings. What has been your most important lesson on this trip?

Students then had the next few days in Halong Bay to reflect on their most important lesson. Below are their lessons they learned, which they shared at the farewell dinner. What amazing, insightful young adults!

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